Letter To The ACLU About the Medical Mafia

 I am a blogger who writes and reports the American medical industry and its crime and corruption. Given all the fines against hospital and drug corporations for their crimes and zero arrests or prosecutions I think it is time that action be taken against that segment of the criminally elite ruling class. Fines, whistle blower and class action lawsuits are not protecting Americans from it's biggest killer and thief. Several books could be written about the Medical Mafia but no major publishers would touch. Network investigative journalism is precluded from reporting on this.

With all violations of the rights of American the ACLU is reactive rather than proactive. This approach is a failure. The legal system in the US is impotent. The criminal justice system is more of an industry. Immunity for its police, prosecutors and judges has assured that most American don't have an even chance at finding justice in the courts. This immunity extends to what we peasants refer to the criminal elite ruling class, the people Bernie Sanders calls the donor class and the billionaire class. 

The ACLU seems to concentrate on social issues as it pertains to the rights of members of protected groups e.g. LGBTQ, women and Blacks. Those groups are not the only victims of  cruel injustice and systematic abuse. As a 66 year old disable White male I have very little faith in the courts to solve the problem created by the corporate criminal elite that plague all Americans and that more harshly impact the protected group. It is not just my belief, it's a fact; the biggest threat to unalienable rights of ALL Americans, especially the elderly is what we victims refer to as the Medical Mafia. 

Please fact check the following statements.

The American medical industry is mostly unregulated. There is no federal agency that oversees doctors, medical labs and hospitals.

American hospitals average 10 medications errors per day a day. 10 times a day the average US hospital gives wrong medication to the wrong patient. 

Healthcare acquired infections outpace community infections.

American MDs are the third leading cause of preventable deaths and injuries.

The American medical industry is more than 17% of the US GDP. 

Americans pay 3 times the world average for health care and in spite of that the US is ranked 37th for quality. 

The leading cause of  preventable death and injury in the US is it's medical industry.

The US has the highest infant mortality rate in the industrialized world.

More women die during childbirth in the US than in any other industrialized nation.

70% of medication sold in the US prescription and OTC are manufactured in China and India. These medication are often mis-formulated  and contaminated. There are at least 200 factories making medications in China by slave labor but only 2 FDA inspectors. 

My idea is to stand on the public sidewalk holding a sign that says, patient information. I will hand copies to people. 

My aim is to expose the truth about American healthcare directly to patients as they enter medical facilities. I plan to do this from a public sidewalk. I expect the facility to pretend not to know the law, call the cops and lie to them. I expect to be assaulted by security guards or medical personnel. I expect to be unlawfully arrested. My 4th amendment rights will most certainly be violated as I will be arrested if I don't show my ID and if I remain silent I will also be arrested for for exercising first Amendment protected activity in New York State. It's hard to have faith in the competence of the ACLU of NY while 1st, 4th and 5th amendment rights are routinely violated by the police. Cop: "I need need to see some ID" Peasant is thinking, "You need to go fuck yourself tyrant." Victim remains silent and the cops beat the shit out of him and claim he resisted arrest.  Peasant pleads guilty because his public pretender tells him he's fucked if he doesn't. 

I have no back up so I am asking the New York ACLU to be hiding nearby when I am doing this. I hope they get caught battering me and I hope they get caught in their lies. I want to sting the medical thug and the cops. I want millions in actual and punitive damage. I want to create case law that will punish lying cop callers and cops. I want doctors and their industry to eventually honor their oath.

My hope is that the US Medical industrial complex is properly regulated. My hope is that the FDA becomes a watchdog for the people instead of the lapdog it is for Monsanto and big pharma. 

Our greatest inalienable human right as mentioned in the Declaration of Independence is our right to life. Depending on who is doing the counting, healthcare induced death is the leading cause of death in the US. While it is argued that healthcare is or should be a right, bad healthcare is a death sentence. Like Medicare Part D, Obamacare was another giveaway to the Medical Mob. Remember separate but equal? That was more constitutional than forcing people to buy private insurance of unequal coverage. 

US healthcare needs reform at every level. The first place to start involves the arrest and punishment of as many members of the medical mob as possible but we all know that will never happen. Other countries provide good healthcare for all their people. Italy does it for less than 1/2 than the US and is ranked number 2 for quality. The numbers are similar for Japan and France. France knows a lot about liberty and how to deal with filthy rich tyrants and other oppressors of humanity. 

The problems the ACLU seems to be dealing with are political and societal problems caused by bigots and religion. Bigots rarely create holocausts. When you add up the deaths caused by Hitler and Stalin and you compare them with the deaths over the last 30 years by the Medical Mafia only a hypocrite would turn a bland eye to the numbers. Trying to fight this kleptocratic tyranny with case law and pretending what some ruling by a man in a black costume writes is a victory for the people and the constitution is at best naive. Robespierre said that, people don't judge like courts. He said they throw lightning bolt and kick the oppressors of humanity back into the void. To me it is absurd, have even allowed things to get where they have in all aspects of American society. We are in a fight. The idea that if you ignore a bully the bully will leave you alone. That's BS and even if it were true that bully is going to find another target. I'm not going to be a martyr for this vile country. Jesus turned the other cheek and look how that turned out. The angels weep and evil grows sustained by their worthless tears.

Until the slime who break laws and kill and maim on behalf of corporations pay the price for their wrongdoings nothing will change. We need to make these bastards uncomfortable. We need to punish them. We need to without mercy demolish their insatiable egos. 

Is there any chance that the ACLU will get its hands dirty and go proactive? 

The bottom line is: Black males will be treated worse and murdered by cops at a higher rate than White males. Peaceful protests nor will laws change that. Cop unions need to be gone and the justice industry will remain corrupt as long as it is a for defacto for profit industry whose actors are above the law. In the meantime the theft and carnage of the criminal justice mob pales in comparison to the theft and carnage of the medical mob. Police officers as poorly trained as they are actually do more good than harm and the data proves it. The same can not be said of the the medical mob. If I had to render aid to a dying cop or a dying MD, I'd rush to the cop and ignore the MD because I figure most cops have a hell of a lot more honor and integrity than most MD in spite of all the corruption in their ranks.

Republican Pedophile Josh Duggar Arrested

 

Josh Duggar's Wife Anna Is 'Standing by Him' and Believes He's 'Innocent,' Says Source

Dory Jackson

Mon, May 24, 2021, 2:41 PM

Josh Duggar has his wife Anna Duggar's support amid his ongoing child pornography case.

"She's standing by him," a source tells PEOPLE exclusively. "She thinks Josh is innocent."

"[Josh] has seen [his] children with Anna there. She has to be there," the insider adds of Anna, who is currently pregnant with the pair's seventh child.

Late last month, the U.S. Marshals Service confirmed to PEOPLE that Homeland Security arrested Josh, 33, and transported him to an Arkansas jail where he was held without bond.

While in police custody, the 19 Kids and Counting alum appeared in court virtually via Zoom and pleaded not guilty to charges of receiving and possessing child pornography.


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At the time, U.S Chief Magistrate Judge Erin L. Wiedemann also declared during the hearing that Josh would be prohibited from returning to his Arkansas home with Anna, 32, and their six children if released. Instead, he would have to be "in a residence where there's no minor in the home."

Josh was released from jail one week after his arrest. As he awaits trial, he is required to stay with third party custodians Lacount and Maria Reber. He is being confined to their home with GPS tracking.

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Josh was additionally granted "unlimited contact" with his children — Mackynzie Renée, 11, Michael James, 9, Marcus Anthony, 7, Meredith Grace, 5, Mason Garrett, 3, and Maryella Hope, 17 months — provided that Anna is present. However, he is not allowed to see any other minor children, including his many nieces and nephews.

Josh's trial is set for early July. If convicted, the former reality star faces up to 20 years of imprisonment and fines up to $250,000 on each of the two counts, making his total possible sentence 40 years.


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Josh's parents, Jim Bob and Michelle Duggar, broke their silence on the matter shortly after his arrest. "We appreciate your continued prayers for our family at this time. The accusations brought against Joshua today are very serious," their joint statement read.

"It is our prayer that the truth, no matter what it is, will come to light, and that this will all be resolved in a timely manner," it continued. "We love Josh and Anna and continue to pray for their family."

Josh, who prosecutors believe had more than 200 images of children on his computer, is no stranger to controversy. In 2015, a 2006 police report that surfaced indicated Josh was investigated for molesting five underage girls, two of which included sisters Jill Dillard and Jessa Seewald. Josh said that he was "extremely sorry" for the "wrongdoing."

That same year, Josh revealed that he cheated on Anna and admitted to struggling with addiction to pornography after Gawker reported about his active accounts on Ashley Madison — a website that helps to facilitate affairs. His Arkansas car dealership was then raided by Homeland Security in 2019 due to an "ongoing federal investigation," but it was never made clear whether he was the focus of the investigation.

Letter To Liz Cheney

 Liz,

The depravity that is Trumpism has been around long before Trump came on the scene. I used to vote a split ticket but now today I vote straight Democrat.  

I may have voted for McCain had he not chosen Palin for VP. I was satisfied with Obama but saw Obama Care as a giveaway to the corrupt Medical Mafia. Since turning 66 and loses my disability eg SSI and Medicaid I am really struggling cause my Humana Medicare Advantage plan is woefully inadequate and may be the death of me. The US pays 3 times the world average for health care yet the quality of US health care is worst among developed countries. The exploitation of human suffering by the medical industry is a form of extortion. The US medical industry isn't called the Medical Mafia for nothing. The mishandling of the pandemic is not entirely on the Orange Menace. 

As to the big lie, the worst part of it is that the depravity required to believe it. I have debated so called conservatives for more than a decade and their disdain for reality smacks of pure evil. Think about this. What if Hillary had 5 kids by 3 different men, paid male strippers for sex, swindled contractors, workers and students and bragged about grabbing men by their private parts? Women do that sort of stuff. I know because when I was young and played in bands it would happen to me and my bandmates.

While I am not a conservative, I understand the need for real Reagan style conservatism but today from a fiscal perspective, Republicans have been the borrow and spenders. At least the the Dem tax and spend.

It is clear to me that unlike so many of today's Republicans, you are moral and patriotic. Like John McCain, you seem to love America. 

The word conservatism is misused today as is liberalism. Neither word in the correct context is a dirty word. In my mind, conservatism today means hate, bigotry and ignorance and to think that MLK was a a Republican is astounding. Liberal has come to mean, "Someone who understands facts."

Liz, another word for fascism is corporatism. Ron Paul and President Eisenhower warned us about that. Uncle Bernie warned us about the billionaire class. 

It has been said that when to people control production we have socialism and when corporation control the government we have fascism. 20 years ago, Ron Paul called what we have now soft fascism. Too bad "Ayn Rand" Paul is such a lying douche nozzle. It's either Jesus or Ayn Rand, you can't have both. 

The problem I have with classical conservatism is that the world changes and things can't always stay the same and we have to adapt and IMO we should be and egalitarian society as the move to socialism is inevitable. The disparity in wealth in America is obscene. Rich man - Eye of Needle - Camel. The CEO of Humana get paid $18 million per year.  What will happen if the Trump mob figures out that the people who work in the US Capitol and merely errand boys and girls for their corporate masters?  I suspect that it will make the French Revolution look like a pillow fight.

Women Are Bitches

 

Why Do Women Bitch?

MARCIA

So much for the fairer sex!

I've written this because I've encountered a lot of bitchiness in my lifetime and based on the number of visits I get to this article it seems to be a hot topic.

Would you consider yourself to be a bitch and do you know why you do it? Is someone bitching at you and you're trying to understand them or why they do it?

Is bitching just another form of bullying and is one worse than the other? Should we let idle gossip destroy our lives? I'll explore these questions, and others, in more detail below.

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Is Bitching a form of bullying?

When a person tries to exercise control over another, whether it's coming from a female or not it is a form of bullying. So yes, when a woman is a bitch to someone else she is also being a bully.

Bitching is a form of abuse because it can be soul-destroying. No-one has the right to say something to someone else just for the sake of appearing/feeling superior. That's a bully in my book.

Which is worse, bitching or bullying? I don't see how one can be worse than the other. Both have the capacity to ruin someone's life. However, bitching can take various forms from bitching as in nagging or complaining, bitching as in bullying or bitching as in idle gossip to others.

People with sensitive souls can be easily hurt by someone's words. Words are immensely powerful, they can uplift you or they can sadden you, they can make you angry or they can have you weeping with joy. The tongue is mightier than the sword, as is the written word. So whether someone is saying something to your face or whether it takes the form of idle gossip behind your back, it can still hurt you equally and is therefore wrong.

Sticks and Stones

Ah, if only it were that simple to shrug off someone's hurtful comments by remembering the sticks and stones verse....

When someone says or writes something there is usually an emotional attachment that comes with it. It all depends on the individual interpretation as to how we react. A bitch/bully knows full well that whoever they are directing their speech/text at will feel diminished as a result. All bitches/bullies only target those who they believe are weaker than themselves.

So the bitch/bully sees the words one way, the recipient hears/reads them another and the victim chooses to react in a negative way, they are hurt. The fact that someone is a bitch means they fully intend to exert power over you, punish you even, in order to feel good about themselves. There is nothing heroic about being a bitch/bully despite how many disciples they've got worshipping them - that's only to give them kudos like some fly-by-night celebrity.

However, women tend to attack other women (and men) in a more cutting, evil, manipulative, sarcastic way and it's the way in which they do it that causes a lot of the damage, they play mind games.

Once someone chips away at you, constantly making you feel less and less good about yourself, you start to believe them. You believe you really are worthless, you believe you really are a wimp, you believe they have power and you have none.

Let's get one thing straight: They are a coward.

What Do Women Bitch About?

Anything and everything! The bitching I'm referring to in this article is that of idle gossip and face to face bullying.

I've encountered a lot in my lifetime. From bitches at school to a bitchy step-mother, to bitches in the workplace. Just when I thought I'd experienced them all, I then experienced it over the internet in the form of jealousy.

In most of my experience I blamed myself. It must have been my fault. There's obviously something about me because it follows me around. After years of soul-searching I've come to realise what it is: I'm too nice!

Women are so contrary, they say one thing and mean another, so I've often found myself in a no-win situation. I didn't particularly want to win as such, I'm not competitive, but I did want to be understood. There's no reasoning with a bitch, it's like reasoning with an alcoholic (something else I know all about..).

In my experience they have bitched because I'm blonde, I'm slim(ish), I lived in a big house as a child, I was a threat to their partner, I was in the way, I come home too late/too early/treat the place like a hotel, I'm good at my job, I'm intellegent etc etc - I could go on.

Without sounding like I'm blowing my own trumpet, all the above is what I came to realise. Before the realisation I probably thought the oppostie such as; they think I'm thick because I'm blonde, they don't like my clothes, they think I'm posh, they think I want to steal their partner away etc. All these thoughts were based on the way they spoke to me and the way I chose to interpret it. I was just one big walking target and each time I believed I was in the wrong.

What about trust?

I'm very cautious about who I trust. I do try to trust initially until something/somebody proves me wrong - that's just my positive nature to see the good before the bad.

Because of my past experiences I do tend to keep myself to myself and have a handful of very special friends rather than lots of acquaintances. Most of my friends are men - men make excellent friends so long as the relationship remains platonic and they know where they stand. I've got women friends too but I just don't tick like they do, I'm not a girly girl and I certainly don't get pleasure out of idle gossip - which is why I think I'm given a wide berth.

I spent years and years trying to be accepted, to fit in with the crowd whether it was at school or the workplace. It took me a long time to realise that despite really wanting to find a special female friend I was probably sending out signals telling them to back off.

The more I experienced being shunned, the more I was isolating myself from the crowd; I was never meant to fit in. Whenever I connected with someone it always seemed to back-fire, as if they were waiting to stick the knife in or pull the rug from under me. People seem to get some sadistic pleasure out of watching a kind-hearted person crumble. It gives them a feeling of power.

So when it comes to trust most of us can only really trust ourselves.

Why Do They Bitch?

Reasons why they might be bitching at you

Women bitch for many reasons: Inadequacy, intimidation, fear, jealousy, resentment, envy, hormonal issues to name a few - notice how these are all negative emotions and therefore it shows they can't be feeling too good about themselves to begin with

Inadequacy - Somewhere along the line this woman feels lesser than you. There is probably an aspect of your personality or appearance that deeply troubles her, so rather than feel down about it she feels better by making you feel rubbish about yourself. If she is lacking that is not YOUR fault.

Intimidation - You probably intimidate them without realising it and you won't be doing it deliberately. You are more likely just being 'yourself' and that is enough to get up most women's noses. When someone is comfortable with who they are it makes other women feel less confident around them. Therefore they will dimish you to regain their sense of self-worth and try their best to break your happy disposition.

Fear - YOU are what they fear, so don't YOU be fearing THEM! This goes back to being yourself. You are probably all the nice things in life; caring/loving/giving/kind/sensitive/naïve. If you're slim and pretty on top of that you've no chance! Well, not until you learn to ignore them. They fear you will catch their partner's eye because you're so nice. They fear they might get overlooked for promotion because you're younger/cleverer, they fear all their friends will prefer you to them. All their fears are usually based on nothing except their own low self-esteem.

Jealousy/envy - probably two of the most destructive emotions. You probably have something that they feel they haven't got. It could be anything from a better car, bigger breasts, better lifestyle, better partner, better job. Women are conditioned to make comparisons, usually mostly visual ones, the biggest of which is one's appearance. So a lot of jealousy/envy will be directed at you because you look a certain way. If people feel inferior based on your appearance then they are probably quite shallow with low self-worth if they feel the need to take it out on you. If people are jealous of your lifestyle then maybe they aren't trying hard enough to change their own - it is easier to feel jealous/enviousof someone than address our own shortcomings and take stock of our lives. Some women actually enjoy being in this state, that is why they buy celebrity magazines because they can only dream of that lifestyle. Dreams can come true, with effort.

Resentment - A very destructive emotion because resentment can eat away at women for years, we have the capacity to carry something on and on and on whereas men tend to clear the air more quickly. To have someone hold a grudge against you is pretty hard to deal with because I'd like to bet you've done nothing wrong, they just don't like you. Well don't change your life in order to make them happy, they clearly want your life if they feel like that, or maybe they just want to be more like you. It took me a long time to realise that when someone is resentful towards you it is because you have a quality which they actually admire and would like to have in themselves. So stay as you are and continue to set an example.

Hormonal issues - this is a good one! Women blame their hormones all the time. It's okay for them to blame their lousy attitude on monthly issues but woe betide a man who blames their hormones - be fair girls! However it really can be down to hormones and we all know when hormones come into a situation we really cannot help it. So consider this aspect if a woman is being unkind to you. Maybe she's going through the menopause - a very frustrating and confusing time for a woman and maybe that is why she is directing so much negativity towards you? Menopause is a time where many women realise they are not seventeen anymore, more so in body than in mind. This is a time where they feel vulnerable especially when in the company of a younger, more attractive woman. Maybe some of this bitchiness is coming from your own mother because she resents your youthfulness? I've personally experienced this and wouldn't dream of being nasty to another woman, I'm the first to celebrate her good looks and attributes than be jealous.

I have no time for any of these emotions and if someone is being like this to you then try to understand that the problem lies with them, you are not at fault.

How Do I Handle A Bitch?

Ignore her, same as you would any bully. Once you accept that they have the problem not you life becomes so much easier. Stop worrying. Stop asking yourself what have you done wrong. Get on with your life.

It takes time and effort and initially it could make things even harder for you because the very act of ignoring them will attract more unwanted attention. Eventually if you are thick-skinned enough they will get tired of it and walk away.

The best way to deal with hurtful words is by being non-responsive. The minute you respond to something that is said or written you give it power. If you say/do nothing the only person hurting and feeling negative is the protagonist. They won't change but they will stop, they'll just find another muse.

Silence holds a greater power, keep your thoughts to yourself, learn to say nothing and walk away. It's easier said than done I know, particularly when it's coming from your own mum or step-mum - the very people you should be able to look up to and ask for advice from. So all I can say from that perspective is just try and understand why they do it, accept it's not you directly and try and let it go in one ear and out of the other. Like most things, especially when you have to live with them, time is the greatest healer. Be patient and things will change.

Rest assured that karma is always in action and there's no greater saying than 'What goes around comes around.' Everyone gets their just desserts.

Some links that may be of interest

• I'm A Bitch, Are You?
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Mr Andy Anderson on November 25, 2019:

I'd like to add that this behaviour is not exclusive to women, unfortunately men seem to have picked up this behaviour too.

Max on April 05, 2017:

The reason Women bitch is because they hate themselves.... this is Freud 101 ! Women need to put a man in his place tell him he's no good because what they really want is a man who's got all his eggs in a row and for this man to tell them what's what !

Oh sure , you may be her pet project in a relationship or marriage but if she doesn't get what she wants which is cash a settled living and safe environment that you must provide then you're going to get walking papers and if you're married then she may screw Her divorce lawyer take half then call the cops on you for harassment !

Women are fucking two bit snakes in the fucking grass! Oh your relationship is working you say .. well this happens too and if it did you've got a lot of money or decent job or nice spread or she's damn ugly or a fat Hog!

The only way a woman is not taking a man to the cleaners is for you to stay a bachelor go Dutch lock up your expensive scotch and valuables and meet her in your own car and don't get plastered while out or you'll get robbed by her

Andres on March 21, 2016:

Im a 24 yr old guy and this helps me tremendously in how to understand my girlfriend. As a business man I don't find quite smart filling out the space with topics or subjects that don't add positiveness to my life. Like what her bff wore the other night, how other girls and guys cheat on their gfs, what her co-worker said about her kiddos & just things that simply don't matter to me. Any idea in how to deal with this without showing her that I just simply don't care about hearing any of that stuff? without being rude of course. Thanks.

Honeybun on August 28, 2015:

Thanks for writing this article. I'm 30 year old woman and also have no time for bitchiness. I don't see the point in it or feel any need to put down other women. I'm consistently faced with bitches at work both old and young. I notice that just after they've gossiped about me (within earshot) they approach me and smile and feign friendliness (what's with that?!).

I think they are deeply threatened by my intelligence and prospects, that I'm not like them. They are competent but all show no substance. I'm not that interesting so I don't know what they could be discussing at length about me! It's very sad. There's no use approaching a male boss about it as men are programmed to not see it, or stay out of it. I also blame the management for hiring insecure people to create this toxic work environment. I agree ignoring them is the only solution but keep it cordial and professional. Don't react to it, certainly don't throw hot coffee in their faces ;)

Charm Garcia from Philippines on March 05, 2015:

Thank you ^_^ it really helped me. being bitched is not that easy --- but not now. Your post helped me gain confidence. After years of being bitched by someone who I thought were good people really put me down. After reading this, I hope I've already learned how to deal with them. thanks again ^_^

ofelia on January 09, 2015:

Pretty much, you do the same thing right now! Why everything has to analysed ?

Keep your fears to yourself but share your courage with others.

Robert Louis Stevenson

embraceyourself on March 19, 2014:

I think women who tend to be at the receiving end of the negative actions of female bitches should just do this thing: STOP being nice ALL THE TIME and just BE YOURSELF. WE DESERVE to be happy AND successful and if that bothers some insecure women, that is THEIR PROBLEM. Growing up I have often been the 'target' of jealousy from other women, including my own female family members and close relatives, as well as female co-workers and acquaintances. Like the writer I initially thought it must have been some flaws on my part, even though somewhere in the back of my mind I'd always suspected it has more to do with those women i.e. jealousy, poor self esteem, feeling threatened, lack of confidence etc.

Also choose your friends CAREFULLY and GET RID of women or so called female riends who put you down. After experiencing catty behaviours from female friends in the past, I am now more selective of who to let into my circle of friends. Personally I have found married (happy marriages mostly) and elder women with a secure family life or career to be more emotionally secure and hence feel less threatened by other women be they younger or older. They are often also a good source of advice and comfort.

Actually the more I think about it, the more I realise that most times those who are truly blessed in their life are often the ones who are 'targeted' by female bitches, not the other way round.

So ladies, if you are facing some female bitches in your life right now, know this: YOU ARE BLESSED and the REAL LOSERS are those bitches.

ian-addi on March 11, 2014:

Very good

elenacocina on August 09, 2013:

Thanks for this, it has really helped me after being shouted at and put down by someone I thought was a friend. I started to defend myself but then just stayed silent the whole time they carried on shouting. Then I walked away. I have not spoken or contacted them since. You have convinced me that she has the problem and that I have done the right thing in my response!

victoria91 lm on February 26, 2013:

This is a very interesting lens.

hazel-i-moon-1 on January 10, 2013:

Been there done that!

arshanashyam-nirhoo on December 01, 2012:

Thank you for this phenomenol article......saving it for my three daughters. So easy to process now when you are constantly on the receiving end of envy, spite and jealousy. I have a tendency, from a little child, to always smile at, motivate and praise other women, however I found that reciprocating behaviour from female counterparts were extremely rare. I have found peace and solace in the arms of a tender, loving husband, who thankfully is my soul mate and leaves very little space in my life to have to fill it with "ladies night" or female friends. I have one female friend from high school who is an absolute angel and is kind, caring and generous, and for these two gems I am eternally grateful. I really hope women will, in future, try to adjust their bad habits of being manipulative and spiteful. Seldom do they realise that once they end these negative qualities, they are rewarded with an abundance of amazing luck and good blessings. Sadly their egos probably dictate that this article is not directed at them at all.

ti8er123 on November 23, 2012:

So tru...so much bitchiness at work...i keep to myself and don't really involve myself in what goes on but i can still hear the whisperings and bitchiness and it makes me feel uncomfortable at work...i hate the office because there's too many women...i should have worked in a less female oriented organization.

it doesn't matter if I keep to myself, i can still HEAR IT around me. its never ending...

justmelucy on October 23, 2012:

Awesome Lens. I am one of those that doesn't complain, need to have things my way or even be picky about food much less bitch. I even feel uncomfortable typing it. As a result, I have recently learned that my inability to express myself and my feelings has made me a victim of verbal abuse in a long drawn out domestic abusive relationship. The scars and broken bones have healed but not the vicious assaults made to my mind,body and soul. I am glad to be on my way to Victory as healing and cleansing take place.

Onemargaret LM on September 22, 2012:

Wonderful lens and so very true!

daveswife on September 21, 2012:

Wow! I truly thought I was the only female that felt like this. Huge revelation to me. Sounds like such a cliché but you sound like you have written about me. I get sick and tired of cliquey women saying one thing to your face and another thing behind your back. I feel sorry for men as they have no chance! Thanks so very much for writing this, it is excellent.

RestlessKnights on August 21, 2012:

I want to quote Rodney King and Jack Nicholson, and ask: Why can't we all just get along? But since we apparently can't, your lens is quite useful, well done!

pheonix76 from WNY on August 07, 2012:

I think that everyone can have their "bitchy" moments, some more than others, it just depends on the person.

Liveliferead LM on July 16, 2012:

Great lens, I might add, that as a man, men are starting to bitch just as much as women sometimes, it is becoming very sad.

Millionairemomma on June 20, 2012:

I think you gave great tips.

Natural_Skin_Care on May 25, 2012:

I think jealousy, insecurity, and boredom are primary reasons. You made great points. Like you, bad experiences made me limit myself to a few close friends.

blondebecky on May 23, 2012:

Loved it, so very true

pinkrenegade lm on May 20, 2012:

Great lens. I specifically love the part on how to handle a bitch.

Marcia (author) from England on May 09, 2012:

@curtis-eagle-eye-mullin: Thanks for your comment and I did what you requested :-)

curtis-eagle-eye-mullin on May 08, 2012:

i can relate! thanks so much, you're awesome--this really helps... love heals everything ;)

utuzzz on May 06, 2012:

good article

curtis-eagle-eye-mullin on April 21, 2012:

@chrisssy: bitch?

Marcia (author) from England on February 28, 2012:

@limited279: Thankyou for your comments - I like receiving feedback on this lens and it is generating some varied responses. Your wife sounds just like me :-) and you are right, life is too short.

limited279 on February 27, 2012:

My wife has never been one to bitch or as I say complain much. This is something I find to be a great quality in her when not only women but most men even complain, bitch, and argue about stupid little things far too often. Life is far too short to spend it complaining, great lens!

Marcia (author) from England on February 24, 2012:

Chrisssy, thanks for your comment. Funnily enough, I agree with what you had to say - maybe I looked at the subject from a victim's point of view and you're right, sometimes we deserve to be bitched at, and yes, we all do it from time to time - myself included!

chrisssy on February 24, 2012:

I disagree with a lot of what is said here because everybody has been in a bitch more than just once. Anybody who says they don't bitch is far from telling the truth and the person getting bitched AT is not always the victim

Ram Ramakrishnan on February 08, 2012:

Great topic for a lens. The world will never be without its share of gossip-mongers. As you have rightly said, once we accept this as an inevitability, handling it becomes far easier.

kathysart on December 04, 2011:

THUMBS UP... with zero bitching.. lol

anonymous on September 21, 2011:

as a dude, you sure helped me, thanks for the insight into a woman's mind. If you like to browse lens as I do, mine has a great educational topic with poll questions for my readers to do.

whiteskyline lm on September 05, 2011:

I love the title! And you make some very valid points. Yes, an attack is a cry for help :)

Marcia (author) from England on August 24, 2011:

Thankyou mrducksmrnot for your comments. I agree with what you say and I have noticed those who go on have usually got some real problem and bitching is possibly their cry for help; they are angry at the world around them and hitting out. Just my opinion. Glad you enjoyed the lens.

mrducksmrnot on August 24, 2011:

A most wonderful lens for sure. You cover it all and more and it's from the heart. I've learned that even when someone bitches keeping quiet and not responding is best but also Listen to what was said because sometimes it it a plea for help but mostly not. But for the one's plea for help be sure to go back even if it is bitchy. It could change their life also. Love this lens. God Bless You for pouring out your heart and not bitching.

anonymous on August 04, 2011:

Ignore them, the key to getting along without bitches....and keeping silent, yup, I'm learning that one!

Marcia (author) from England on July 21, 2011:

Well bensen32 I'm not one of those types fortunately, just invest in some cotton wool or some earplugs.... Thanks for your comment and for visiting my lens on 'what women want from men', I appreciate your visits.

bensen32 lm on July 20, 2011:

Good lens interesting read. going to read your other..what women want from men should be interesting.

Tolovaj, we forget? I don't know who we is but I hardly have time to forget :) Some remind me on an hourly bases. hehehe

Marcia (author) from England on July 09, 2011:

Ha ha and thankyou, glad you liked it. I have no time for bitchy women and gossip-mongers.

Tolovaj Publishing House from Ljubljana on July 09, 2011:

Well written, we often forget how bitchy can a lady be. Ops.Did I say a lady? You know what I mean:)

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Robespierre Killed The Rich

During the French Revolution and the reign of terror a lot of filthy rich scumbags were brought to the guillotine and had their ugly heads cut off. The sentiments of the Trumpanzees who stormed the US Capitol in some ways echoed the sentiment of the French when they began killing off the filthy rich. The problem with the Trumpers is that they were and are too stupid to know that the people fucking them are the filthy rich. Had they stormed some corporate boardrooms with flamethrowers and laid waste to members of the billionaire class things would have changed. When the members of the ruling class begin to live in fear, they will have no choice but to do the right thing and give up their wealth.

These slime balls are not as insulated from the peasants as the would like to think they are. What if the next mass shooter were to think past lunch and go wild on the filthy rich instead of killing innocent peasants? What if some retired special forces troops begin hunting down the oligarchs and kill off  a few hundred of the here in the US and around the globe? What could they do about other than live in fear? Can and will their ill-gotten obscene wealth save them? What type of lives will these punks have if the were afraid to emerge from their bunkers? 

When they are aboard one of there private planes will they tremble for fear that a some freedom fighter with a shoulder launched stinger missile will hit their plane and blow them out of the sky? 

What if members of the Islamist terrorist groups were to wake up and put the Allah bullshit aside and wake up to the fact that their oppressors are not the United States government but rather the filthy rich oligarchs of the world? 

Some of the richest and most vile slime on earth are the members of the Medical Mafia. These fuckers are running an extortion racket that would make the Italian Mafia green with envy. The American Medical Mafia is 20% of the US GDP. People who exploit human suffering for extreme profit are pure evil. 

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Message To Chuck Schumer Regarding The Treatment of Dr Pierre Kory

 Dr Kory is not some Trumptard shit head like "Ayn" Rand Paul. He's a left leaning Democrat and and highly credentialed MD. Had the Senate Dems listened to him early on in the COVID crises many lives here in the US could have been saved and the virus could have been nipped in the bud. 

I won't be pulling any punches Chuckie. Members of congress in addition to being whores for the corporate criminal elite are dumb and corrupt that that includes many Democrats. Both sides put politics before science and before the health and welfare of us peasants. 

Ivermectin could have saved 10's of thousands of lives and shut this pandemic down. I don't know how mobbed up every senator is with the Medical Mafia but seeing as how the US Medical Mafia is 20% of the US GDP and the leading cause of preventable death and injury in the US I would have to guess that it's 90% of you errand boys.

While I would rather see Dems in power (the lesser of two evils is less evil) I'd have no problem wreck the Dems and this story about how the Dems pissed all over Dr Kory can wreck the Dems. My buddies Cenk and Ana of the Young Turks call it straight down the middle and unlike me, they can't be bought. If they report this the slime at FOX and other right wing Nazi propagandists will spread this and unlike most the the shit they say that are lies this is immutable scientific fact that was known by the errand boys at WHO, CDC and the FDA early on. 

I have worked for Democratic candidates starting with Jimmy Carter. I voted mostly Dem all my life. I campaigned for Hillary for Senate and in the primaries against Obama. In the past 20 years I voted a straight Dem ticket. 

Had the corporate media championed Dr Kory and Ivermectin and had even one errand boy in congress gotten on CNN or one of the other corporate propaganda outlets, sick people would have been saved from covid deaths and most of them them would not have needed hospitalization. You guys fucked up so badly in the beginning that you could not even get the mask thing right and the filthy fucking media continued to misreport and confuse everyone. The CDC knew that the RO number for this virus 2.5 before is was kicking the shit out of Italy. We know Richard Burr had this information and we all know he did insider trading but you all do.

I still would rather see Dems in power than Republicans as again the lesser of two evils is less evil. I am also happy to know that this virus will kill off anti-maskers and Trumpanzees for years to come. After all, they are even more depraved than the trash that they elect.

I can interview Dr Kory https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=19DPijOoVKE&t=617s just like he was interviewed by Sir Dr John Campbell who has a direct pipeline to the BBC, Boris Johnson and Queen Elizabeth. 

The DNC is inept and when this comes out they will fuck up. I know how to do damage control and the DNC doesn't. Both sides will blame each other but this time the GOP will have actual real facts on its side. I can advise you on damage control but it will cost you or I can advise the RNC bastards on how to spin this to the independents. 

I think you should hire me before the GOP does. You guys need help with this because you have just as much blood on your hands as Trump and his mob. I can easily contact every GOP senator like that mouthy lie spreader Ted Cruz and that sociopath Rand Paul and explain to those assholes ways to spin this because at this point America is an oligarchy and a police state so it doesn't really matter all the much which party is in power. There are enough moral and courageous Dems such as AOC who will pull the pin on this and the shit will really hit the fan. 

There is no way this isn't coming out. Expect headlines like these.  Dems Berate Top Medical Expert - Dems and FDA Lagdogs Block Miracle COVID Drug Ivermectin, Senate Democrats Side With Medical Mafia And Block Lifesaving COVID Drug - Dems Mobbed Up With Big Pharma Donors To Help Spread COVID - Dr Birx Exposes Ivermectin Scandal - How The Pandemic Could Have Been Stopped - COVID Deaths Plummet In Czech Republic Once Government Allow The Use of Ivermectin.

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